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How Are Japanese Girls?

Japanese girls want to be cute and young. They don’t want to talk about anything gross or unpleasant.

Is it easy to date a Japanese girl or not? There can be two answers found in the internet to this question. Some say it’s very easy, the others claim it’s not.

One of the first statements I found to this question was that here:

It’s pretty easy to date a Japanese girl in Japan, but it is work to maintain. They give almost anyone a chance who has genuine interest in them… but please use caution… in your dating time they are dying to get married and settle…

I found this information many times in the internet, so I guess it must be true. So the first thing I learned about Japanese girls was that …

… Japanese girls like to marry soon and settle down!

The other side disagrees that Japanese girls are easy to date. Some of the reasons make sense, but I guess everyone has to make his own experience.


Do Japanese Girls Like To Date Foreigners?

There’s a contagious myth, in both Japan and abroad, that by simply being a foreigner, one has an automatic advantage for dating Japanese girls. The reality is that there are many reasons why Japanese girls don’t like foreign guys. What are the most important reasons for a Japanese girl to avoid a foreign guy?

  • Language barrier (Japanese is not easy to learn but Japanese girls expect a big effort in learning her language)
  • Public stigma (Japan is a largely homogenous culture. Less than 2% are foreigners)
  • Parental disapproval (Hand in hand with the public stigma are the judgment of what may be a Japanese girl’s most influential figures: her Mom and Dad)
  • Low paid jobs (Foreign guys in Japan usually have low paid jobs compared to Japanese girls)
  • Bad reputation of Western men (They are seen as playboys)
  • Japanese girls desire long term relationships, and there is always the threat the foreign guy will leave Japan and return to his country
  • Foreign guys are “socially uncalibrated” for the Japanese lifestyle (like: talking on your phone on a quiet train)

Source: here.

This article of Japan Today from 2012 claims that foreign guys are at least getting more popular among Japanese girls. But are relationships and marriages between foreigners and Japanese girls really a success story? Not really …

Marry A Japanese Girl = Expect A Divorce

The divorce rate for mixed Japanese woman white male is fairly high. I know dozens of mixed marriages and most of them have failed. I think most fail going into the marriage with very different expectations. Communication and understanding are key and without speaking the language, that can be quite difficult.

Most white guys romanticize way too much about Japanese girls. First and foremost, they are girls and act like girls. They are generally not subservient like portrayed in the movies. Most are smart and can be quite conniving to get their way or to be passive aggressive. Most like having brand goods. Coach, Louis Viton, etc. While they like living in the US, they like to go home often. That can be quite expensive. There will be many misunderstandings about what each hoped to get out of the relationship.

Source: here.


If A Japanese Girl Has To Choose Between A Foreign And A Japanese guy …

Title of the video: Foreign boy VS Japanese boy: Who would Japanese girls spend a summer with?

Among the first three Japanese girls, two would choose a foreign guy. Only the third would prefer to have a Japanese guy. The next two would all choose a Japanese guy, so it is 3:3.

5:3 for the foreign guys after the next two Japanese girls. Next two: 5:5. After that there was a lot of Japanese talking which I did not understand.

At the end of the video the results were revealed and it turned out that the foreign guys just won by one single vote. So the popularity among Japanese girls between foreign and domestic guys is around 50/50.

The reasons of the Japanese girls who prefer Japanese men not to date a foreign guy were: “too tall” and “language”. The reasons for choosing a foreign guy was the assumption that foreign guys kiss and hug more and they also respect females better than Japanese men do.

Japanese Girls Love Black Men

Someone who lives in Okinawa confirms that on Quora here: “Where I live in Japan (Okinawa), black men are actually the most popular foreigners for a lot of the girls out here to date. Asking one of my friends why, she replied, “You know how Asians are like the forbidden, rare fruit in America. Well, foreigners are that in Japan, and even more so, black guys.””


The Danger Of Getting Married To A Japanese Girl

Very hard and high maintenance! Beware of your bank account and the mother-in-law once she convinces you to get married, most Japanese girls are only interested in settling down with a gaijin (Japanese men treat them badly) and raise a family. Chinese women are more independent, have less cultural baggage and are more interesting in many ways. Source: here.

In Japan, women tend to manage the money. The husband works many hours a week, gets his paycheck, and comes home only to give all of the money to the wife. Source: here.

Marriage is very important to Japanese girls if they want to become mothers. The percentage of births to unmarried mothers makes out 2 percent in Japan. This is the lowest rate in the world! Iceland is top by 66%, followed by Sweden (55%) and Norway (54%). After having a child, many Japanese girls stop having sex with their partners. Source: here.

This author claims that a relationship with a Japanese girl feels like being in a prison: “Having a Japanese partner, I repeatedly discovered, unbalanced this sense of freedom. I tended to feel more like a prisoner in a relationship with a foreign culture from which I could not escape.”

Many men are under the assumption that Japanese girls are nice, submissive, and obedient. There was a time in Japan where women were expected to behave this way but it is not like that anymore. Japanese girls tend to act this way when you are simply dating them. They will cook for you. They will stop by your house to drop off a gift that was bought for you. All will seem nice and well until you put that ring on. When that happens, the act will disappear. Source: here.


It’s Not Easy To Break Up With A Japanese Girl

Dating a Japanese girl is more easy than to break up with her. A user warns here: “Dating is pretty easy. Breaking up is really, really difficult.”


Japanese Girls Wants You To Pay For Everything

Check if you have enough cash with you, if you are going to date a Japanese girl. The usual expectation is that men will pay for the date – if you haven’t made an agreement to go dutch, they’ll expect you to pay for everything. Source: here.


Which kind of men attract Japanese Girls Most?

Japanese girls like men who make decisions. Asking them what they would like to do, is a big turn off for Japanese girls. Even if you’re trying to be nice. As mentioned above, Japanese girls like if you spend a lot of money for them. So you should not be poor if you want to be interesting for Japanese girls. Japanese dates can involve a lot of money – going shopping for her clothing etc. is a fairly common date theme. Source: here.


Japanese Girls Are Not Faithful

Do not be surprised if your Japanese girlfriend jumps in bed with other guys. Especially if you are “not available” for a some days or longer.

A user at Quora wrote: For a very large number of Japanese girls, having a boyfriend does not mean she’s “not available”. Many young women do not consider sleeping with a friend to be cheating on their boyfriend, especially if the boyfriend is away on business or lives far away etc. You can check this for yourself by looking at the results of numerous polls of young Japanese girls over the years. Most consider “It’s not cheating as long as I don’t love the guy”. If you’re from Europe or North America this might be a huge culture shock. But basically cheating is absolutely rampant in Japan. Just a different culture. Not all girls do this but I have personally seen dozens of Japanese girls who later told me they were married or had a boyfriend or whatever.


Japanese Girls Are The Healthiest Girls In The World

At 87 years, the life expectancy of Japanese women is the longest of any gender in the world. Source: here


… But The Mental Health Of Japanese Girls Is Another Topic

Something that really needs to be mentioned is that Japan doesn’t really have a mental healthcare industry. Many Japanese girls are running around there with some serious unchecked mental issues and you would not have the faintest idea at first. Problems such as abuse can be seen as normal and that behavior will be projected towards you. There is also the chance of her pulling off a disappearing act, leaving you wondering what the hell happened. Source: here.


Japanese Girls Do Not Like Sex

50% of all Japanese single girls are virgins (source: here). In this article Japan is also described as a “sexless society”. That’s also a reason why birthrates in Japan are dropping to a record low. What happens to a country when its young people stop having sex? Japan is finding out. Article in the Guardian from 2013: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/oct/20/young-people-japan-stopped-having-sex


How To Impress A Japanese Girl?

    • Real proposals: go on your knees, look into her eyes, and give her a diamond ring
    • Call her “the most beautiful girl in the world” anytime you can
    • Flowers
    • Making breakfast for her
    • Sending love letters or love messages
    • Saying “I love you” on the phone
    • Be very kind
    • Kiss her over 10 times a day
    • Give her a “pet name”
  • Source: here


Japanese Girls And Online Dating

Finding a Japanese girl trough an online dating website is a very difficult task. Just because Japanese girls do not like online dating. This was revealed in the online dating study of wogoal.com. For a man Japan is one of the most difficult countries to find a Japanese girl online. In a ranking of 60 countries, Japan takes the 51th place. Only 32% of Japanese girls reply to a message, and only 38% of those 32% are ready to stay in contact a bit longer than for just some few messages. At the end the chance for a real date with a Japanese girl is around 13 percent. This is the worst result for an Asian country.

The most popular topic for Japanese girls at online dating websites is travel. Around 23% of the talks with Japanese girls was about that topic. Only single girls from Peru, Serbia and Belgium like to chat more about travelling.


Japanese Girls And Politics

On the 10th April 1946 Japanese girls were allowed to vote for the first time. Politically active Japanese girls are very attracted to Communism, as the Japanese Communist party has the highest ratio of female candidates, with 79 out of 315.

Former Prime Minister Koizumi Jun’ichirō (2001-2006) of the Liberal Democrats was the most popular politician among Japanese girls ever. He was a supporter of the US foreign policy in that time, and their wars in Afghanistan and Iraq. He increased the military budget of Japan to a record high, privatized the Japanese mail service, and cut the pensions.


Relationship Status Of Japanese Girls

According to the 2010 census, 58.9% of Japan’s adult population is married, 13.9% of women and 3.1% of men are widowed, and 5.9% of women and 3.8% of men are divorced. The annual number of marriages has dropped since the early 1970s, while divorces have shown a general upward trend. Source: here.


Which Foreign Men Are The Most Popular Among Japanese Girls?

5th … men from the USA (7,3%)

4th … men from France (10,3%)

3rd … men from Germany (10,6%)

2nd … men from Italy (12,6%)

1st … men from England (18,4%)

Source: here.


The Sex Life Of Japanese Girls

The Durex Sex Study confirms that Japanese girls hate sex. Having sex only 45/46 times in a year, means the very last place in the world sex ranking. Second last place goes to Singapore by at least 73 times. Having not much sex, does not mean not to exchange sex partners a lot. Japanese girls almost have 13 different sex partners in their life time. This is quite high, compared to a lot of other countries, and their none willingness in having sex.

Japanese girls receive their first sex education with 12,5 years. They have their first sex with 17,2 years.

43% of Japanese girls had unprotected sex not knowing the sexual history of their partner.

1% of Japanese girls had an unprotected pregnancy under 16 years.

2% of Japanese girls had an unprotected pregnancy between 17 and 18 years.

6% of Japanese girls had an unprotected pregnancy with 19 years or older.

8% of Japanese girls admit having a sexual transmitted infection (STI).

24% of Japanese girls are happy with their sex life.

20% of Japanese girls are open minded about their sex life.

25% of Japanese girls would like to have more sex than now.

13% of Japanese girls have a monotonous sex life.

21% of Japanese girls had an extra marital affair.

6% of Japanese girls had a threesome.

4% of Japanese girls had a lesbian experience in bed.

6% of Japanese girls tried sadomaso.

19% of Japanese girls tried bondage.

23% of Japanese girls used a vibrator.

11% of Japanese girls tried anal sex.

33% of Japanese girls had a one night stand.

By 28% Japanese girls think that vibrators are the best way to get into the right mood, followed by watching porn with 22, and toys by 21%.

24% percent of Japanese girls had sex in the car, 5% in the parents bedroom, 4% in the garden, 20% in a toilet, 1% in a plane, 3% in public transport, 21% in a park, 3% in a club, 7% at work, 7% on the beach, 13% at school, 4% infront of a camera, 8% in an alleyway, and 3% at a party.


Japanese Girls And Having Children

This is one of the first things you learn about parenting in Japan: that even very young children are expected to be independent and self-reliant enough to go to school unaccompanied, even if it means taking a city bus or train and traversing busy streets. The country’s extremely low crime rate means it’s safe, and the general feeling among parents is that the community can be trusted to help look out for its own. (It’s also why nobody locks up their bikes, and why ladies leave designer handbags on seats in Starbucks before lining up for their beverage. What can happen?)

Japanese girls do not talk about their kids. They tend to keep the personal private, sharing only with their closest confidantes.

Japanese girls do not hug or kiss their children. But they take their babies everywhere, by sling or Baby Bjorn-like carrier, wearing them around the house, out to the shops, even cycling across town.

In most households, the family sleeps together, with mom on one side of the futon, dad on the other and child in the middle, an arrangement resembling the Japanese character for river ( 川 ) that can continue well past preschool.

Japanese girls are very focussed to teach their kids as early as possible to keep the peace and not to disturb other people.

Healthy nutrition is extremely important in Japan. Japanese girls set high standards for their kids’ bento box meals, rising early to prepare an elaborate selection of healthy items that look pretty too—fish, vegetables, tofu, seaweed, rice balls shaped like animals or plants.

Source: here.


How Japanese Girls Look Like?

Link gallery of famous Japanese girls

Aino Kishi from Hokkaido – Centerfold

Azumi Harusaki from Tokyo – Centerfold

Yuri Hamada – Centerfold

Yuma Asami from Tokyo – Actress

Neiro Suzaka from Tokyo – Actress